Hosting guides & invitation tips

When to send invitations, what to write on them, how to get people to RSVP, and practical planning for showers, birthdays, weddings and every party in between.

Milestone Birthdays4 min read

Planning a 60th or 70th Birthday for Guests of Every Age

A milestone birthday often mixes toddlers, teens, coworkers and lifelong friends, and the plan has to work for all of them at once.

Party Planning4 min read

Rain Plans for Outdoor Parties: What to Decide Before You Invite

Pick your rain plan before invitations go out, so you are not scrambling to text fifty people the morning of the party.

Birthday Parties5 min read

Planning a 50th Birthday Party: Guest List, Venue, Speech

A practical order of operations for the guest list, the venue and the toast that actually gets a milestone birthday done.

Party Logistics5 min read

Hosting a Party in a Small Apartment: Flow, Coats and Headcount

A practical way to figure out how many guests actually fit, where they'll stand, and what to do with everyone's coats.

Birthday Parties4 min read

40th Birthday Party Ideas Beyond a Night at a Bar

Practical ways to celebrate a milestone birthday that fit the guest of honor, not just a bar tab.

RSVP Tracking5 min read

Tracking Meal Choices and Allergies for Your Caterer

How to build an RSVP that gives your caterer exact counts, not a guessing game the week before the event.

Party Budget5 min read

How Much to Drink Per Guest: A Party Planning Formula

A simple per-guest formula for beer, wine and spirits, plus how to plan for the non-drinkers who always show up too.

RSVP Etiquette4 min read

What to Say When Someone Invites Themselves to Your Party

A step-by-step way to decide, and exact wording to use, when someone you didn't invite asks to come anyway.

Party Budget4 min read

Planning a 30th Birthday That Works for Every Budget

A milestone birthday plan that respects what your friends can actually spend, from format to invite wording.

Guest Lists4 min read

One Guest List, Two Generations: Grandparents and Teens Together

How to send one invitation that works whether a guest checks email daily or has never opened it.

Party Planning5 min read

How Many Chairs, Tables and Serving Pieces a Home Party Needs

A practical way to count seating, table space and serving pieces before you rearrange the living room.

RSVP Etiquette4 min read

Event Reminders: What to Send the Week Before and Day Of

A simple timeline and sample wording for the two reminders that actually cut down on no-shows.